If you haven't seen your wife smile at a traffic cop, you haven't seen her smile her prettiest. Kin Hubbard
Whose Wedding Planning Idea will you choose?
What if you and your groom don't share the same wedding planning idea? What can you do if you want a large wedding and he wants a small one? How do you get past this stone wall? You might as well start compromising now or you shouldn't even get married. There will be years ahead of compromise and disappointment when one of you have to sacrifice.
An important thing to look at is why you are having the disagreement. Does he not want a large wedding because he is painfully shy and breaks out in hives when more than a few people are around? Or is he worried about the money a larger wedding would cost?
Neither one of you should be uncomfortable on your wedding day. If you want a large wedding just because that's what you've always wanted but that will cause your groom pain, you may want to think about compromising. You don't want him to dread his own wedding.
If the groom has a different wedding planning idea for financial reasons, then there is room for negotiation. Although you don't want him spending your wedding day worried about how long the two of you will have to work to pay this off, larger doesn't necessarily have to mean more expensive. If that's all he's worried about and you can show him ways you can cut back on some of the expenses to accommodate all the people you want to have at your wedding then he's liable to come around to your side.
What if he wants to wear cowboy boots and you want a formal affair? If neither one of you offer to compromise on this wedding planning idea, you probably have no business getting married. This is like one of the millions of little things that are going to come up every day in your married life. It falls under the heading of, "Don't sweat the small stuff." Somebody just needs to give in.
If he wants to invite his uncle George who always smells and talks too loud, smile and ask for the address for the invitation. You've got to realize here that he's not trying to impress you with his smelly uncle George but you are the one he wants to show off. Smile through it.
Weddings can be stressful to plan. Don't add to that stress by arguing whose wedding planning idea is the right one. Involve him where he wants to be involved but don't insist that he help you pick out the color of your bridesmaids shoes. He probably doesn't care. He just wants to marry you.
Wedding Ideas - How To Personalize Your Wedding
By Ben Needles
Many people enlist the help of a wedding planner to assist them with their wedding ideas and advise them for all aspects of their wedding day. One of the main questions a bride and groom ask is how can we make our wedding different The best way to make your wedding stand out and be different is to personalize it.
Do not waste time trying to out do other weddings or special events. Instead spend your time looking into ways to personalize your own wedding ideas and use it as a time to be creative, imaginative and fun.
In some cases it is traditional for a bride to wear their mothers wedding gowns. However over time the dress may have deteriorated or may not be the style you want. Instead of leaving the dress sitting in a box why not use it to make a ring pillow or incorporate it into your wedding reception ideas by using the material to make wedding favors or use the dress as part of the table decoration.
The wedding table is the focal point of any wedding reception and can be extremely easy to personalize. You can add personalized napkins, name plates, wedding favors and decorations. To save money all these details can potentially made by you with the help of your friends and family.
One of the first wedding ideas to think about it are the wedding invitations. It is becoming increasingly popular to personalize wedding invitations by having them made with a photo of the couple in question.
Wedding invitations are something that a lot of people will keep as a piece of memorabilia to remind them of the day so adding a photo is a great way to make your wedding invitations stand out and look different together with giving the invitation that extra personal touch that will no doubt be appreciated by your guests.
Traditionally the wedding cake should be a three tiered cake with white icing. Nowadays more and more people want their wedding cake to be personal and unique. You may decide to have the cake topper created as a replica of the bride and groom or pull all the stops out and have a totally unique wedding cake made to represent what the couple enjoy. There are many wedding cake designers who will be able to incorporate even the most unusual ideas.
There is also nothing to stop you breaking away from the traditional tiered wedding cake and going for something more unusual like a chocolate fountain or fairy cakes.
Personalizing your wedding with your own unique wedding ideas, likes and interests will make your special day unique, fun and a day that not only all your guests will remember but you will be remember for the rest of your life.
About the Author (text)
Vicki Churchill is the owner of wedding ideas, a site that specializes in Wedding Ideas, wedding Decorations, Seating Plans
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